Inspiration: Essays & Musings
Essay: Small Things With Great Love
by Susan Ives There's a meme going around that says, “Of all the things I learned in elementary school, avoiding cooties was the last one I expected to use.” Are cooties still a thing? The kids from the old neighborhood – all of us in our 60s now – gave that a thumbs...
Thich Nhat Hanh: See the Universe in a Sunflower
"I live in Plum Village, in the Dordogne region of southwest France, an area known for its sunflowers. But people who come to Plum Village in April do not see any sunflowers. They hear people saying that there are many sunflowers around, but they cannot see them...
Bryan Stevenson: How to Save the World
Bryan Stevenson is the executive director of the Equal Justice Initiative in Montgomery, Alabama, and a professor of law at New York University Law School. He has won relief for dozens of condemned prisoners, argued five times before the Supreme Court, and won acclaim...
Hoping for interreligious dialogue to become way of life
BELIEF by Rajam Ramamurthy, M.D. As a 3-year-old girl in India, I received letters from my father, who was studying mining engineering in the U.S. In one, he described how newspapers were sold in the 1940s by being piled in a corner. He said nobody took one without...
VIDEO: Compassion Action SA Lab with Ben O’Dell
San Antonio Faith-Based Initiative's casaLAB event on Jan. 29, 2019, featured Ben O'Dell, Faith Liaison with the Department of Health & Human Services in D.C. The casaLABs - Compassion Action San Antonio Labs - explore proven ways to become more compassionate...
Sustaining the long note
From filmmaker Michael More: "This morning I have been pondering a nearly forgotten lesson I learned in high school music. Sometimes in band or choir, music requires players or singers to hold a note longer than they actually can hold a note. In those cases, we were...
Busy, Busy, Busy
It’s not enough to be busy; so are the ants. The question is: what are we busy about? Henry David Thoreau Not causing harm requires staying awake. Part of being awake is slowing down enough to notice what we say and do. The more we witness our emotional chain...
Diderot: The Danger of Setting Oneself Against the Law
At Half Price Books the other day I picked up a copy of five short pieces by Denis Diderot, the 18th Century French philosopher of the Enlightenment: This is Not a Story and other stories, a new translation by P.N. Furbank. (Oxford University Press, 1991) The last...
Blame it on the Cupcakes
In Karen Armstrong's book, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life she quotes Confucius, who said that the family is the first school of compassion. I've been thinking lately about how that applied to my family. Three things that I learned when I was three — and my...
Homo Empathicus: the Evolution of Empathy
This illustrated talk by Jeremy Rifkin explains some of the neuroscience of empathy:
Civil Discourse
One question that always, always, always arises when we are out and about talking about compassion concerns the anger in public discourse. How can we re-learn how to discuss important and controversial issues without resorting to shouting and name calling? Christopher...
Love Your Neighbor: Funny & Profound 1952 Video
This clever, Academy Award-winning 1952 Canadian short had me laughing out loud. Then thinking. When the flower first appeared I thought the flower was a dandelion and the neighbors might start arguing over whether it should be pulled or remain — a battle we sometimes...
Back to Basics: Sympathy, Empathy, Compassion
I admit it -- I get a little sloppy when I'm talking about compassion, sometimes conflating it with empathy or even sympathy. They aren't exactly the same. Sympathy comes from Middle French sympathie, from Late Latin sympathia, from Ancient Greek συμπάθεια...
It’s Not All Golden: What Rules Do You Live By?
I'm one of those people who thinks that a lot of human behavior is governed by rules that are so ingrained we don't even realize we are following rules and may not be able to articulate them once we do. The Golden Rule, the underlying principle of the Charter for...
We Don’t Know What We’ve Got ‘Til It’s Gone
While sitting at the dining table the other day I glanced over to a corner of the room and was grossed out. I've been slacking on the housework for a while -- first, a broken wrist, then -- well -- other things are more interesting, aren't they? A more disciplined...